Posted by DallasBob on June 11, 2009 at 10:16 [76.194.97.82]
In Reply to: Getting the wife involved posted by stashu on June 10, 2009 at 22:16
It's impossible to determine how she would react without knowing her personally. When I was married, I had informed my spouse about my diaper fetish, and although I didn't get to indulge very often, she seemed ok with it at first, but was not the least bit interested in joining me. After several years of marriage, I came to determine that she wanted a masculine man, not someone who wore diapers. (Understand, most women want someone thye feel will take care of them). Although she now regrets her decision to divorce me, the die has been cast.
I am now with a woman who is more than happy to wear diapers with me, and loves to wet them as well. She see's me as the man that I am, with a fetish for diapers. BUT... as with any sales pitch, you have to slowly introduce them, not hit them between the eyes with it. This is not a run-of-the-mill fetish, even my girlfriend thought at first this could be related to children. She didn't understand that there are times I like to revert back to being child-like, and it has NOTHING to do with children. Once I coaxed her into trying diapers, she actually thought it was pretty harmless. AND...I got her to try cloth diapers, and she even likes them better than disposables!
It all started as a little joke, she constantly has to pee if she's had a coctail. One night I jokingly said "geez... it would be easier if you wore diapers, I can't imagine having to get up every 10 minutes to go to the bathroom. She laughed and said "I could probably use them!" After a few months, I was kissing her neck when she again informed me she had to pee. I said "Really? I have to stop kissing you so you can pee? I should put you in a diaper!" She said "well, if you had one, I'd probably put it on, this feels good, I hate to stop." I said, well, tell ya what...it might be a little kinky, but I'll run up to the store and grab a pack, and get some powder as well. It might be fun to lay you down and rub powder all over you!) And off to the store I went. She LOVED it!
So... it is all in your approach. You might suggest if she has a wetting problem that she should try wearing one in the comfort of your own home. If she balks, just tell her how much fun you would have powdering her, putting one on her, and changing her as well. (Remember, it's about HER, not YOU. YOU will come into the play a little later!) Remind her it is perfectly harmless, and it was the first nurturing thing that she ever experienced in life, and it's something that would involve BOTH of you. If she is receptive, after a few times, you might suggest that you would like to wear one with her, to see what it is like. Sometimes this method works, sometimes it doesn't. Good luck to the both of you.
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