Posted by diaperer on June 27, 2009 at 01:02 [205.188.116.18]
In Reply to: Re: Irresponsible posted by Paul on June 12, 2009 at 08:47
This was not about the kids and I was not trying to offend any one. I am sorry and would like to explain more. Me and my girl friend met for breakfast that day, and she was commenting on how glad she was her one girl finally potty trained and the exspense it would save on diapers. That was when I said ,without thinking, because she did not know about my little one yet, "Why dont you just change to cloth like me and it would be cheaper. Washing diapers isnt that bad." Which was followed by a strange look and her asking why I would know. I tryed to blow it off but she knows me.Thats when I told her how I was making him into my little one. To my surprise she was excepting where some of my freinds just think I am wierd and do not understand. Yes I did dress him in a thicker diaper and that was why the little one noticed, but after the quetions it was like any other visit we had with my friend except he had to stay in the little ones area and use his sippy cup at dinner. Other than the girl asking about his diapers I did not change or check him in front of them. They did notice anything different and he just played with them like any other visit except we would not let him out of the play area except to eat. My freinds rule is if you are not potty trained you stay in the play area and that was her way of having fun with him. We did not flant the fact in front of the girls and I actualy whispered things relating in his ear so they wouldnt hear. Yes my freind had fun watching her 3 year old come and go from the play area while he was left in there, but the girls saw nothing strange. They were in bed when we left so they did not hear her comment about her babysitting. I had a nice evening with her. We talked alot about my new liitle one and she was a real freind about it. She also seemed interested and offered to help so maybe she really would babysit. Either way I do not take him to anyones house without them knowing or push his babying on others when we are out. We keep to ourselves and I do keep him in his diapers and snap crotch pants all the time. Other than a couple outfits even his snap crotch pants are just his modified adult clothes. Anyway I am rambling. We just returned from camping and I wanted to read his last few posts when I found this. I am sorry for offending anyone. My intent is not to involve children. Only to keep him as a 24/7 diaper wearing toddler, which yes, at times children others may notice.
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