Posted by Polly on January 09, 2010 at 23:05 [81.132.251.227]
In Reply to: Can a marriage survive diaper intolerance? posted by Six Gun on January 09, 2010 at 01:33
I am just going though a separation with my 2nd wife, the one who 13 years ago I bore my soul to about my desires and needs, and who at the time gave me comfort that it would be alright, and that whatever the circumstances my desires were no ones business other than ours.....
Move forward and almost from the point we married with all the best plans and hopes we had, she turned on the idea and felt my diapers were a substitute for her, and all the pleading and explaining could not change her mind....
This has not got any easier over the years and just this Xmas she informed me that she cannot live with a "freak" anymore and has taken our child and left me!
I am not saying that its all her fault, but I am sure you all know when you get the "desire" it remains, and sometimes I could and should have been tolerant of her thoughts, but I loved her, I gave her all the attention she needed and never asked her to participate.
After 13 years my friend, you have a big decision to make, and remember it will get worse when the "real" maternal feelings kick in...
Good luck, and take heed from someone who finds themselves alone again!
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