Posted by freshsitter on January 10, 2010 at 23:32 [92.194.85.152]
In Reply to: need advice posted by freshsitter on January 10, 2010 at 09:32
thanks for the replies, I'm aware there are a lot of fakes on boards like this, and there is hardly a way I could convince you this isn't,
so just for the sake of it lets pretend its genuine,
I am not against them having their fun, I even play along as far as it is possible for me, but I'm not very good at this make-belive games, and I never had younger siblings or any close contact with babys whatsoever,
it sure has something to it, watching a girl with whom you just the other day had an involved discussion about the pros and cons of our national health system, stuff her face both-handed with grapes the juice running down her chin, and then spitting the whole mush back out when she discovers there are seeds in them,
or one of them who never is without a paci, seemingly trying to tell me something very important and urgent, around that thing in her mouth, but I really couldnt make sense of her mumbling, so I just pluged it out and she had a really shocked look on her face, tearing up a bit, fascinating how they can do this on cue, in the end I found out that one of her crayons had rolled under the cupboard where she couldn't reach, by the time I got it back to her she had her thump firmly embeded in her mouth,
and this is a woman who works for a laywer,
I asked my gf if maybe they just couldnt crap themself as long as they are at our place, but she told me she cant promise something like that, cause when they are babys, they just go if they have to, they wont hold on,
before that smelly incident I wasnt even aware they used their diaper at all, but obviously they pee in them all the time, being little babys they cant change themself, so they stay in their own filth for up to 5 or 6 hours, this cant be healthy,
for me having to be more understanding, leaving them to it and letting them use one of our guestrooms, shows that I am quite understanding in the first place, and even if I'm not that involved in their game, having them around is a lot of work, for they need near constant supervision, I was always wondering why my gf former place was such a mess, with stickfigures scrawled all over the walls and stains in all her carpets and her sofa, now I know,
we are quite different, but as it says "opposites attract", the idea of an adult wearing diapers without need, seems odd to me, to place it mildly,
but I can see how it is good for her and how it helps her release tension,
I just dont want one day to find one of them had her shit smeered all over our furniture, so I have to find a way to make them follow some rules or compromise,
maybe you can help me with it?