Posted by Freshsitter, Read this on January 12, 2010 at 23:47 [75.110.66.64]
In Reply to: Re: need advice posted by freshsitter on January 11, 2010 at 23:34
Treat this as something you and your girlfriend must resolve. Tell her you don't have a problem with her kinkiness or fetish interests, but that you draw a stern line with how far it goes when you are around.
You need to emphasize that her ignoring reasonable boundaries and engaging in this behavior has you upset and concerned about your relationship, to the point that you are asking online fetish forums about it.
Make sure she understands you want to be with her but you can't ignore some things. If she doesn't care, let her know that ignorance of your feelings isn't appreciated, and you can't be with her.
The last thing I will mention to you is about having a AB girlfriend: don't make a big deal out of it, outside of this particular problem. The bright side of having somebody with this fetish is they might have a very active imagination, be very open-minded, and be indifferent to peoples personal opinions.
I hope you manage to communicate through this with your girlfriend. Both for each others sake and in case one day you two are no longer together, be a shame if a girl with that kink didn't express it...
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