Posted by freshsitter on January 13, 2010 at 03:45 [92.194.19.80]
In Reply to: Re: need advice posted by freshsitter on January 11, 2010 at 23:34
thank you for the thoughtful and well-meaning responses,
obviously the first thing I did was talking to my gf, not on the day it happened, the tempers were to high for that, but on the next day I sat her down for a bit of a clearing up conversation,
from the intellectual point of view she is well aware and understanding of my objections to the filthier part of their playtime, but from the emotional aspect she isnt able to make concessions, entering the baby-mindset, is something she needs to relax, to cope with the stressful parts of everyday life,
as far as I understood this, her time with the other girls is a bit different from her short babyplay at the weekends, there her wetting the diaper is the finale to it, after which she is content with being a grown up again,
but the afternoon with her playmates once a month, is something she is really looking foreward to, and it has to be a whole and uninterrupted experience, being with them reinforces the stressrelieving-effect for her, she cant just snap out of it every hour to change her diaper or to stop herself shitting it, it would break the mood,
what I am looking for is a way to get along with it, but within their fantasy,
my gf told me that it really was best when one of them took the babysitter part, but obviously not for the sitter, so they discontinued that, I am reasonable sure she would like to see me in that role, but I am not convinced the other two girls would be thrilled, although during their playtime they interact with me like a child would with the parent of a friend or an uncle maybe,
I am insecure how I could go about that, I dont think I can just treat them like little children, on the other hand I dont know the first thing about babysitting anyway,
thats why I am on this board, so maybe someone can give me a couple of tips,
sure I could just ask my gf what she would like me to do, but I think that would spoil the experience for her,
I am sorry if I might have caused the impression that she dosnt care for my worrys or is inconsiderate, I can ensure you she is as willing to make this work as I am
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