Posted by oznl on January 15, 2010 at 18:17 [210.49.50.219]
In Reply to: Can a marriage survive diaper intolerance? posted by Six Gun on January 09, 2010 at 01:33
I’ve been around a while on on these boards for as long as they’ve existed and unfortunately, your situation is far from uncommon. For all the hackneyed, generalised mysoginistic crimes men stand accused of, you’ve just found one of the big counter-suits: the famous female “bait and switch” routine.
The “ice wall of passive, non-specific dissapproval” is another one (tm). I know it well. Hahaha... Usually not for DL stuff but for some other misdemeanour. Often I suspect that the objective is to have me suffer rather than achieve resolution but I'm drifting off topic.
Whilst her discontinuation of participation is naturally disappointing to you, of course you have an inalienable right to pursue your harmless fetish insofar as it hurts no-one. Of course, these kind of relationships don’t exist on the basis of each party fully pursuing their rights so that’s at best, background information.
It really is your call – nobody can really advise you but they can try to describe the terrain to you. Know that this fetish is unlikely to go away but she should also be given the opportunity to understand that what you do isn’t dangerous and that she’s playing for keeps.
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