Posted by Bill on March 04, 2010 at 20:34 [76.233.83.106]
In Reply to: Level of acceptance from partner posted by Question on March 03, 2010 at 08:05
Basically you are telling us that she tolerates it. She'll continue to tolerate for a few years. Then she'll likely learn to resent it. Especially if it's every time you have sex. As soon as she wants a baby, your baby time is done.
What everyone else said is true. If you don't fully satisfy her in the sack and get off yourself with plain vanilla sex, she's going to learn to hate your diapers.
Be open and honest about your needs. Tell her they aren't going to change. Tell her (and be prepared to follow through) that you want each other to be satisfied, so she needs to describe her needs and her limits regarding your needs.
If she's hesitant, that's your answer. If you can't enjoy vanilla sex, that's your answer. If you think she's going to become your fantasy version of her, she's more than likely not.
Bill
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