Posted by Michael on January 17, 2004 at 02:06 [203.59.190.172]
Hiya.
Having found a way to learn to be a bedwetter I think its only fair to share. Firstly, I only wet when my bladder is full. Thats kind of a mental condition I put on myself. This way I can sleep anywhere and choose if I want to wet my diaper. When I do wet I have no memory of it at all, I just wake up wet :D
I started trying to learn this at about October last year so you can see its only taken a few months to untrain myself. Every single night (except when I wasn't in my bed) I had a disposable diaper and plastic pants on. You will need the plastic pants if your going to wet at night otherwise you will leak!
You also have to find a brand that you trust, something that you feel comfortable wetting while laying on your tummy. Some brands like Abena aren't real good here, no side protection. My preference is Tena Slip Maxi. They are the thickest and have plenty of protection. Think I've only made them leak once :)
For the first 2 weeks I had no luck (kinda expected). I'd wake up needing to go right away. I'd just lay back and let it flow. Don't move at all, just relax. You have to feel comfortable and secure in your diaper.
Oh yes, a word of advice for men, make sure you pride and joy is pointing down otherwise you leak all over the place.
After the first couple of weeks I went on holiday for a week and didn't wear diapers at all. The first night back I wore a diaper and woke up wet! That was the first time since I was a little kid (24 now).
The important thing to remember is to always make sure you will have a full bladder. If you don't the bladder won't bother asking to be emptied, and your brain needs to get this signal to be a success.
After the first wetting it was a week till the next one. I was kinda expecting this to be a little quicker but wasn't that lucky. Since then I've been wetting more and more often. Out of the last 9 nights I have woken wet with no memory 8 times :)
It just takes persistance and a lot of self control. I go to bed every night hoping I'll wake up wet, and a majority of the time I do.
Learning it this way (making the brain learn to empty the bladder when full) allows me to go on holiday like I am soon and not have to worry about wetting so long as my bladder isn't full. This really takes a load off my sholders. When I first started wetting I knew I was going on holiday. I was a little worried that I may be too successful, wetting even when I don't have a full bladder. So far this hasn't happened once.
So heres a short set of rules I use (when wearing diapers):
1) Every night tell yourself it would be great to wake up wet.
2) Make sure you'll need to empty the bladder
3) Trust your diaper and use plastic pants
4) Never masturbate in a diaper (can make them fictional to the mind)
5) Get enough sleep so you properly relax.
6) Be persistant
7) Be proud of wearing diapers to bed, and using them (see below)
8) Tell people (other ABs/DLs) about your efforts.
9) If male, make sure the little fella is pointing down.
For point 7, I'd like to mention that most of my mates know I like and wear diapers. They really don't think much of it and with some of their fetishes I can see why :)
When waking up I will happily stand on the balcony in my wet diaper for the world to see while I have a ciggi. I'm close enough to requiring them now, may as well be proud of it. My folks still don't know and I'd like to keep it that way. Having told lots of people I can guage their reactions. My mum would not handle this well.
So anyways, good luck with your wetting. Feel free to email me if you need some support :)
Email: quadfour79@yahoo.com.au