Posted by its mee on September 08, 2004 at 14:35 [24.169.232.73]
In Reply to: Finding vs. converting,mommy vs. babygirl posted by L.E. on September 08, 2004 at 12:13
what i find EXTREAMLY strange is no one seems to be the slightest bit rational about their love intrests...i hear all these "i told my controlling conservitive wife(gf) about my diapers and the hated it and ruined my life"...well OF CORUSE they hated it, they are a con-serv-a-tive partner...it seems that we just pick the first thing that comes along, because we think of ourselves as such freaks..and figure that we are lucky to find someone to love that we just sink our claws in..then as an afterthought we think about ourselves and our needs, and relize we need those as well..which then screws up the whole works
how bout people try this on for size, get to know yourself, and to accept it before you even think about looking for a mate..then think about the general qualities that you would like in a lover,friend and companion...im sure up there on the list would be "accepting and understanding"...so then figure out the best places to find the type of person you are looking for, and go for it!
youll surly find your soulmate this way...it works, give it a try
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