Posted by The Voice Of Reason on September 21, 2004 at 07:44 [18.104.22.168]
In Reply to: Re: My Advice posted by Sarah on September 21, 2004 at 07:09
I sincerely apologise. I guess it's a bit of an issue for me how our society often encourages girls to be weak and helpless and sexual in a really blatant, unimaginative way. At first glance there seemed to be an element of this in your posts but I admit I misjudged it. I'm truly sorry.
Personally, I prefer girls to be intelligent, assertive, strong-minded and a bit wacky lol, which is why I have no problem with you getting mad at what I said! I deserved it;-)
Well, my advice still stands...have a long hard think about how deeply this AB/DL thing runs inside you. If you think you might have found your true sexuality as an AB/DL then, as the others have said, good luck on your journey, you're amongst friends here! I know it takes time to get over a relationship, there is no quick switch you can flick, but every journey starts with a small step so the first step is to admit to yourself that THIS is the real you.
If however you're just experimenting with diapers then maybe in a few weeks you'll stop being interested in them, or you'll be prepared to sacrifice them for another shot with your boyfriend on his terms.
In your heart, which turns you on more: "dry" sex with your boyfriend or "wet/messy" sex (either on your own or with someone else)? Only you know what makes ya tingle down there!!! But I'd use that as the best advice you can get.
Take care and keep us all posted