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Posted by Dill Pickle on July 17, 2005 at 08:39 [64.12.117.10]

In Reply to: Re: Psychologists-Thanks posted by steve-wa on July 16, 2005 at 23:51

First, fetishes are about as changeable as true sexual orientation. They arise too early to change through mechanisms not yet understood, though a reasonable theory might involve your subconsciously remembering all that loving attention you got as a baby in diapers that suddenly ceased when you were toilet trained.

Also, don't regard your diapers and sex with a GF or BF as mutually exclusive-- I really enjoy my sex with my GF, too.

About a decade ago, I got psychological and psychiatric help because I was bursting into tears uncontrollably from time to time. I came to the conclusion that I really needed help more than I needed to keep my fetish secret. The response I got was a few questions to make sure I was doing it safely. I've occasionally had a reminder to keep it discreet, but the general attitude is that the fetish is only a problem when it gets in the way of your functioning in the rest of your life.

You should look up Bitter Grey's den on the diaper fetish. It shares the attitude I expressed above.

The depression was far more important. The diapers actually helped me through the final six months with the abusive GF, especially isnce the SSRI antidepressant I was taking was interfering with normal orgasm and ejaculation. I still wear and wet diapers when I am upset or sick, and they comfort me. The current GF doesn't like diapers, (I asked and she'd prefer not to know, something about changing one to many under difficult circumstances) so I just continue concealing them and their disposal.

I showed up in my doctor's office last week wearing depends absorbent underwear. The doctor did not comment. Again, the acute gut pain I was in was more important.

Any psychologist who says they can "cure" your fetish is a quack. However, it might be good for you to visit one (or even a sex therapist, quite possibly with your GF) to find out for yourself about how they regard needing diapers for sex and/or comfort. We can write all we want, but nothing quite beats the actual experience of it.



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