Posted by BrianInSF on July 20, 2005 at 01:17 [69.110.7.236]
In Reply to: I really want to be a baby again... posted by unloved on July 18, 2005 at 14:56
Not to be too judgemental, I wish this man the best and hope he gets help, but this is the reason I never meet anyone in this community.
Maybe it's cause I'm a Californian and therefore naturaly standoffish, but I won't meet with people offline anymore cause I'm afraid that I'm going to be meeting an insane person.
I have this fucking image in my head of being in a local coffee shop and this full grown man walking in dressed in diapers and a bib looking for me. Or worse yet a person who sees me as some sort of savior or soul mate or something and won't leave me alone and leaves 40 messages on my cellphone.
As a Bay Area native I'm keenley aware that often the most interesting and intellegent and emmotionaly stable people might dress like their insane, however many people that look crazy actualy are and I don't feel like rolling the dice and meeting with the actual insane person.
I'm sorry, I know this sounds a lot harsher than I would like it to. I don't like to make people feel bad, I don't want to belittle their often extremely difficult situations. But this has been bothering me for a while, and I wish there was a way for me to meet other ABs and DLs without fear that I'm going to regret it,
Oh well, I guess that's what the board is for. Damn, I need a cosmo; stat,
Brian
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