Posted by nurturing on July 22, 2005 at 17:07 [65.60.216.17]
I was cruising and found a post in the archives about AB switches. This aroused my curiosity.
1)How common is this?
Myself I'm a switch, sometimes I like being a daddy, other times I'm babyish. But I haven't met any girl switches, all the girls I've met online and offline, insist on being either the mommy 100% or the baby 100%.
2)how do you decide roles?
Myself varies over time with my mood, I'll stay in a daddy mode for a while where I like spanking and taking care of others with a strong nurturing sense. Then I'll switch for a few months as a baby, and want to be the baby for a while.
In a relationship how do you negotiate roles?
3)does the role switching take away from the realness?
I wonder if you've seen someone as a baby, can you take them seriously as a daddy. Personaly I think when one is put in the headspace by a strong will, that you don't even notice. But I can't be in diapers and be daddy/older brother/caretaker at the same time, unlike a friend of mine.
Any AB switch girls out there?
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