In Reply to: Re: I wet the bed! posted by Matt W on December 06, 2006 at 05:47
There goes another idealised fantasy out the window : -)
For the cooler months of the year you’re absolutely right. It’s all very warm, wet and erotic at first, wriggling around with your partner under the duvet with wet pajama pants and sheets but assuming you I CAN get to sleep, I’m guaranteed a wake up a few hours later when the post-sex glow has worn off in a cold, wet bed with wet pants chafing my thighs. What was, a pleasantly warm, wet crotch has spread to become cold wet legs, arms and back. My partner is dozing perched on the far edge of the mattress, trying to keep out of the damp, swamp in the middle of the bed!
I have two possible solutions:
(1) For mutual bed-wetting, we usually do it in the early hours of the morning so that we can enjoy some sex, some dozing and them it's time to get up by the time things are getting cold.
(2) I will wear cloth nappies and plastic pants to bed. Unlike disposables, they give me all the warm, wet sensations that I like. Unlike a full wet bed, the wetness is localized and well insulated so I can sleep comfortably all night but wake up wet. There’s also less washing.
For me, bed-wetting is one of those “heat of the moment” things whereas wet nappies in bed at night are a long-haul proposition.