In Reply to: First time in years posted by wetpjs (male) on December 10, 2006 at 03:57
Something a little similar has happened to me twice that I can remember.
On one occasion, I had arranged a bed-wetting night with my partner. Normally, on these nights, one of us will wake up in the early hours of the morning, pee our pants in bed and the other will add to the puddle later. On the night in question, I was restless and too turned on to sleep. At around 1am out of sheer boredom, I peed myself just a tiny bit whilst cuddling up to my partner – we were going to soak the bed later anyway. We’re talking maybe a table-spoon, just enough to make the front of my pajamas (and her bum) a little damp. I then fell asleep.
I woke up just before dawn the next morning. As I became more aware, I noticed that I felt quite clammy in the pants department. I reached down and felt myself. My flannel pajama pants were quite wet and plastered to my bum and legs. The sheet was wet underneath me as well with a cool, wet patch of 18” diameter under my bum. This was radically more pee than I’d gone to sleep in!
My first thought was that my partner had woken up and wet herself during the night and I’d somehow finished up sleeping in her puddle. She was still asleep, on her side facing away from me and I rolled over and embraced her from behind. Still asleep, she snuggled back against me, oblivious that I was wet. My hands drifted down to HER pajama pants crotch and to my shock, I found it dry! It was ME who had wet the bed during the night and I had absolutely NO recollection of doing so.
When she awoke, she just assumed that I’d woken before her and wet myself. She wet herself as well and we all had fun. I never felt comfortable about letting on that I’d wet myself unconsciously.
On another occasion, I had gone to bed in a terry nappy and plastic pants. As is usual, I was a little wet when I went to bed. Again, I was asleep on my side, cuddling my partner “spooning” style. This time I was having pee-dreams. I was dreaming that I was out somewhere. I needed to pee but knew I was in a nappy. In my dream, I’d wandered off from the group I was with in a park and and had started to quietly wet my nappy in a copse of trees. I was vividly dreaming that "wet warmth trickling" feeling around my crotch when for some reason I awoke. Within a confused few seconds, realized that I WAS gently urinating on myself. Sleep dazed, I frantically clamped off the flow and shot my hand down to my crotch to investigate the damage. I immediately felt smooth plastic pants over a (now quite warm and wet) thick nappy and remembered what I was wearing.
Breathing a sigh of relief, I allowed myself to resume wetting and quickly drifted back off to a sound sleep.
On all of these occasions I’d been slightly wet anyway whilst asleep: either wearing a wet nappy or in slightly damp pajamas. Also, I’d had partner approval to wet myself, either in my nappy or in an arranged bedwetting night.
I’ve NEVER come close to wetting myself involuntarily outside of those permitted scenarios.
Ironically, it’s never been an ambition of mine to experience involuntary wetting but perhaps there are maybe clues in this story for those who DO wish this:
1. “Permission” to wet in bed
2. Habituation to being wet at night
3. Being a little wet when you fall asleep to begin with