Posted by nurturing sir on May 23, 2008 at 15:36 [65.24.112.205]
In Reply to: Dominance 101? posted by Asuka on May 22, 2008 at 18:31
Talk to him about your need for him to "take control" and how to express that, give him some examples males that you consider dominant in movies or stories for ideas, body language and to get the feel.
figure out your hot buttons..
is there certain phrases, tones, gestures?
"come here missy!"
"you've earned yourself a spanking missy!"
"COME HERE NOW!"
*full name*
"BAD GIRL!"
"Do you want a spanking!?"
*snaps his fingers, flicks his wrist and points to his lap*
do you like him to wear a tie and a shirt? or jeans and a belt?
The internet is filled with spanking literature, about how to spank, and stories for scene ideas.
Talk to him about setting limits on your behavior, what kinds of punishments, and corrections you need.
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