Posted by nurturing sir on May 24, 2008 at 20:05 [71.79.102.90]
In Reply to: Re: Dominance 101? posted by Asuka on May 23, 2008 at 22:06
I remember there used to be some good guides out there, but I'm not seeing them now, just a lot of short ones that leave different things out
this gives a decent intro:
http://www.askmen.com/love/vanessa_100/124_love_secrets.html
but doesnt talk about "spanking positions", safety, or hand patterns
these gives a nice overview of hand patterns and sensations in between the ads
http://www.goodvibes.com/Content.aspx?id=1189
http://www.goodvibes.com/Content.aspx?id=2077
but may be too much info for some people
be careful not to spank too high up and be careful not to break the tailbone its fragile.
be careful of catharsis and other mental states, spanking someone can trigger a lot of strong flashbacks and emotions and sensations.
this may give a little better idea:
http://sex-work.org/pages/politics/Painful_Pleasure.htm
Aftercare is very important to cooldown just like the warmup process is.
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