Posted by Kyoko on March 26, 2009 at 16:22 [173.106.198.174]
In Reply to: Re: yay! thanks! posted by L.E. on March 26, 2009 at 10:06
from reading what you've posted to others, it's clear to me that you are informed and thoughtful. that's more important to me than life experience, so i'm very grateful that you are taking the time to talk to me.
i've always had a childlike personality and demeanor, so having the bf be attracted to me in the first place may hint that he's willing to be more of a paternal figure than your average joe- although i wouldn't go as far as to say it indicates he'd be a willing "daddy" figure.
sometimes if i'm overtired i'll cry and he always reassures me and helps me fall asleep.
when we go out he is really attentive and makes sure i have everything i want. he constantly asks if i need to go to the bathroom or if i want something. he is also good about making me see the magic in everyday things, e.g. telling me a cute story of how X came to be, or finding reasons as to why we should do This and not That. and he already calls me his little girl.
i think the things that appeal to me are unconditional acceptance and freedom of responsibility- having someone who will care for you, dote on you, adore you. someone who will always think you're cute and let you be silly are carefree. i am definitely NOT into wanting to be spanked or put in the corner or being taught how to read (i'm not into pretending for the most part).
but all that's a big step from having him enjoy things like changing diapers and etc. and i wonder about the permanence of the daddy/lg role in relationships as well.
we've been together over a year after meeting online if it matters.