Posted by Cupcake on June 28, 2009 at 07:26 [24.57.247.223]
In Reply to: Switch and this lifestyle. posted by Switch on June 27, 2009 at 10:44
Just my point of view. I think in a relationship, both people need to be pleased, and by the other as well. For me, at least, I am a little girl. I do NOT want to be a mommy, and I don't want to feel obligated, or guilt-tripped into being someones mommy. That would happen if I were to have a relationship with a daddy/baby switch.
I don't think you'd be able to have a healthy relationship with a full-time baby girl, either.
You'd end up resenting her for being what she is. You'd also end up hating yourself, or getting sick of it. Playing daddy 24/7 would certainly get old if that's not what you wanna do all the time.
Also, looking for others to bring into the situation just doesn't seem right. You can either provide for your partner, or you can't. Bringing in another daddy is just... weird to me. Also, who's to say that you wouldn't eventually wanna find yourself a mommy outside the relationship too?
So that's it for me, at least. That is why I won't have a relationship with a daddy/baby switch. Because I may get what I want and you won't be happy, or I won't be happy and you get the switch relationship you want. Either way, it doesn't work.
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