Posted by SFL Daddy on October 09, 2009 at 21:57 [76.106.199.177]
We guys have to remember that there is like a 20/80% rule about most everything. That means, only 20% of everything is truly good, or truly honest. Bottom line: Nobody is perfect, and I think we often unrealistically expect that from the AB girls here - yours truly, especially.
I have been involved with this AB lifestyle for lots of years, and have been thoroughly blessed to have "met" girls from here, if only virtually, who have added joy to my days and evenings, and thus, years to my life.
There are real girls here, but I think we have to remember it is unrealistic for them to immediately jump into our arms, and begin a relationship.
Now I must admit, my GF of two years now met me (not an AB but has wonderful characteristics of some, all the same). met me through a plain-vanilla online match service (free) for lunch. We enjoyed lunch and conversation before she had to go to work. She said she would meet me at my place after work, and that she did (to my amazement; I should be so lucky).
She stayed overnight, and moved in permanently, 4 days later. Between the time she met me and the time she moved it, she slept at her old place just ONE night!
I'll admit that's an extreme, but it is entirely true, and as they say, it can happen to you. But I expected that to happen no more than I expected the man in the moon to come knocking at my front door. LOL.
She had no idea about the AB/DL thing, but is fully aware of I do and supports me in it. Hopefully, both of us will meet a few ABs in real life someday, and have lots of fun.
I am truly grateful and appreciative for those who have kept in touch over the years, and for the new ones who seem to pop up now and then.
Thanks, ladies!
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