Posted by Comet on December 30, 2009 at 19:24 [12.182.184.79]
Well, here goes…
After reading some of the discussions below about the specific requirements that some of the Daddies list here, I’ve decided that maybe I’m not so picky after all. The things I list here are not necessary for me to be fascinated by someone- they are ways to determine if a Little Girl can deal with my own eccentricities. In addition to the ABDL aspects, I tend to live, eat, and pray differently from most of the population, and I’m hoping to find someone who can be happy with that.
I am a musician and storyteller. No, not a singer with a guitar, but playing music ranging from the Middle Ages to traditional Irish to Scandinavian to avante garde improvisations on wood flutes, lyres, and instruments most people haven’t heard of before. The stories that I tell are about the music that I play- music learned by different cultures from faeries, mermaids, trolls. SO I need someone who has a similar drive to create in some way, who doesn’t feel satisfied with just watching other people create, but wants to perform, write, paint, design so much that you can’t turn away from it, even when what you want to do seems impossible. As your Daddy, I would let you hear all the new tunes I found first, compose music for you, and enrich your life with tales of the world of faeries much deeper and genuine than anything bleached-out Disney fairies can offer. I want to be with someone I can mutually inspire and be inspired by. And of course, I would ideally like to be with someone who is fascinated by the sprites et al. Particularly since my appearance is most appealing to women who like wood elves- I have waist length dreadlocks and green eyes behind antique glasses. This also means I will need someone who will want to travel with me, particularly to renaissance and fantasy festivals or can deal with the seasonal comings and goings that this would entail. If you’re in a situation where you need to stay near one place it would ideally be a more cosmopolitan area where I would have more performing and research opportunities. What I don’t want is an intentionally sedentary, passive person. I love visiting new places on foot, eating at locally-owned cafes, going to museums.
I have been a vegan for most of my life. I don’t try to convert people, but having worked and volunteered in a number of food banks and pantries in my life, I do want people to be aware of the many processes and people involved in bringing whatever kind of food they choose to the plate. But when it comes to a lover, I’ve found that because there’s so many emotions involved in the sharing of food, that non-vegetarians who I’ve dated have felt there was something missing when we couldn’t share their favorite/comfort foods. So finding another vegetarian is probably best.
I am a practicing pagan. I have many Wiccan friends and often participate in rituals with them, but I’m not Wiccan per se. Because spirit cannot be defined or described by words, religion must be about devoting yourself to experience as much of life as you can, using ritual to make sure you stop and enjoy days, people, and places that matter. I can find joy out of beautiful music of any spirituality, but have little patience with the words of book religions.
At play, I want someone who is flexible. On the one hand, our ABDL sides are not something we can compartmentalize, but neither are we only the roles we play. I have from a very young age (about 4-6) developed these different fascinations including being a caretaker for someone else, but my mental makeup is more complicated than just 24/7 Daddy. I want to give that kind of care because I understand how special it is to receive it, but I also really enjoy wearing myself, so the best person to share this with is someone who can enjoy being completely spoiled a lot of the time, playing as diapered partners in crime some of the time, and on special occasions taking charge as well. (I don’t know what to make of Caretakers who don’t enjoy wearing themselves, it seems like it would be strange trusting yourself to someone who doesn’t understand both sides of the equation.) Imagination is key.
And since this is a “warts and all” (only a metaphor. I have no warts of any variety) description you should know that I have Attention Deficit Disorder and Diabetes (Type I.) Both are being treated, and all in all, I think having these has given me a chance to experience many things and be more accepting of different disabilities and mental differences. So probably the ideal balance I’m looking for is someone who is not “normal” in the usual sense, who can relate but function enough in the world that traveling together can work.
As far as age, I’m 36 (but most people think I look younger), and although I would enjoy taking care of an Adult Baby much younger than me, I do want someone who has experienced enough to know that this is what she is looking for. There are Abygirls who I’ve met and care about and communicate with from afar, but distance and other factors have kept things from working out as full time, and I would expect that you would have similar relations in your life and be okay with that.
I’m about 5’10”, and am densely built, with strong bones that give me more mass than anyone assumes by looking at me. I like the idea of someone I can pick up in my arms, but I have also really enjoyed being with Abygirls who are as tall as me and with curvy figures. As long as a person is a healthy weight, neither anorexic nor obese, and can enjoy long walks (wheelchairs are cool if you need one.) In the city, I’m a night person; In the woods, I’m a day person- don’t quite know why that is. I don't smoke and the only time I drink is one or two toasts of champagne in a given year, but I'm okay with someone who drinks- but as Daddy, I would reserve the power to put down rules if drinking became self-destructive.
So there’s a quick 360˚ of me, without a lot of detail about what we’d do in Daddy/Baby mode (because that’s something I would need to find out together with you) and if I’m the kind of person you relate to, please let me know at (reverse the following) moc.oohay @ ydolem_temoc or contact me as comet on diaperspace or diapermates. I’m not looking for someone who’s perfect- I’m looking for someone who’s the right kind of imperfect. I am willing to travel and relocate for the right person, but am currently based out of Texas. I’m looking for in-person relationships and experiences, and mostly use the virtual world as a place to find and connect, but not a place to live in.
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