Posted by Glad to help on January 02, 2010 at 10:58 [69.115.231.187]
In Reply to: Re: Completely disagree - with a different spin posted by bunnyBottoms on January 02, 2010 at 09:16
You're right, I *DID* miss your point.
But implicit in mine was that *THIS FORUM IS (GENERALLY) NOT A GOOD PLACE TO MEET PEOPLE.* If you want to meet Daddies who actively pursue real-life Daddy / LG lifestyles, then IRL kink groups are your best option. If you need, I'm glad to help you find one near you.
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To your reply: *NOTHING* anyone else says should demean you. (unless you enjoy being demeaned, which is a hot kink) How you react to, and how you feel about what others say is *YOUR RESPONSIBILITY* -- not someone else's. An ex-girlfriend -- who was my submissive -- taught me this very valuable truth, one which I employ and guides me in *ALL* aspects of my life from kink to work to relationships. *I CHOOSE HOW I FEEL ABOUT ME,* regardless of what others do or say.
Neither do those Daddies demean other "real" Daddies. Some people want to explore their kinks IRL -- many others do not. Some only want the fantasy, while yet others aren't yet brave enough to pursue anything beyond a fantasy.
There *ARE* Daddies interested in getting to know the whole you -- your opinions, politics, background, your hopes, what you value, and the things that make you smile. But its your job to figure out who wants the same things you want and to weed out the rest. That's no different from getting anything you want in life.
I understand you're frustrated. Try a different approach, a different forum, and if you haven't already, try looking for real-life encounters in a real-life group. As said above, I'm glad to help you.