Posted by Daddy T on January 03, 2010 at 07:26 [68.23.162.224]
In Reply to: Need Honest Help posted by DaddyLosingAll on January 02, 2010 at 23:32
If you were really into your little girl roommate, you wouldn't have pursued the other little girl. this is a symptom of a lot of men out there. always looking for the next best thing when you have something very good right in front of you. you need to decide who is more important to you. you have betrayed the trust of your first little one. why did you go and seek out another little one when you had one already? almost all women will not be second to another. its rare and in those cases its usually not very meaningful.
yes, it seems like you have blown it with both. time to man up and do your best to try to salvage the situation. it may be too late since your roommate wants to leave and your second little one wont share you with another. they both sound like they have a better head on their shoulders than you currently. sorry if my response comes off as blunt but you need to wake up.
you need to pick one and do a lot of damage control. be honest to both of them and yourself. you cant have it all, dude. it seems like you had a good thing going. you got greedy and now you may not have either one. i hope you can make something of this and learn a lesson from it. you are young and have a lot of life ahead of you. you need to know that people are not disposable.