Posted by Angel on January 20, 2010 at 21:43 [66.191.230.128]
In Reply to: Re: Overintellectualized posted by Asuka on January 20, 2010 at 20:40
Thank you thank you thank you. When I read what he had wrote about women that have been raped having "rape fantasies" it just about made me sick. I was raped at the age of 5 by my Uncle and male cousin, and I agree with you Asuka, if a guy ever said he wanted to "play rape" I would have a serious panic attack. It has been 25 years since I was raped, and I still have nightmares about it. Also, even though I do feel that my childhood ended that day, and that leads to some of the reason that I am an AB, it is not the only reason.
I have grown up, but under protest. I just want to be able to go back to an age where there were no worries, no stress. The only thing I had to think about was... well nothing because everything was done for me.
In closing, all I have to say is any guy that would say that about a woman that has been raped needs to be in a situation where he is completely helpless, scared to death, have everything he knows ripped away, betrayed by the ones that are suppose to protect him and doesn't know if he is going to make it out of there alive and see if he wants to "play" that situation in the bedroom. But you he won't.
Sorry this was more of a rant than any help to the original poster, but I felt it needed to be said.
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