Posted by ocelotusa on June 16, 2010 at 10:52 [76.106.199.177]
In Reply to: Meeting new daddies posted by ABMeshell on June 15, 2010 at 17:44
For what it's worth - here is my *opinion* which speaks solely for me.I have been a daddy over the last 10 years for 3 girls (not at the same time LOL). To them, it was only a part-time thing, as the mood hit them. Very understandable. But I wanted a full-time relationship, in a romance. That didn't mean that she needed to be a baby in public. The kind of girl I always wanted is one completely into infantilism.
I've found that while guys are pretty much straight-out blunt, girls are into flirting - and that can go on for months and even years - which means no real relationship, so that during that time neither daddy nor baby enjoy the exquisite pleasures of a real-life relationship.
I just wish girls would be more direct, stating precisely what they want in a daddy (and the variables are stunning). For example, sexual or non-sexual? Part-time, for when she gets in the mood? Does she want a BDSM relationship?
Then again, there's "chemistry." It's what women expect to have with men, but when a man expects the same, he's sometimes accused of being intolerant.
I have been with very overweight girls as well as with "normal" girls over the years, in various sexual relationships; not necessarily daddy/baby. I don't decide what turns me on; it's chemistry. Either my emotions are charged by her or they aren't. Interestingly, my current GF turns me on hey way she looks at me in bed...and when she's dressed very casually - yet I'm turned off by the very same person when she is all dolled up in makeup and truly looks stunning! Go figure that out. (To me, a girl in coveralls an t-shirt is simply the best)
I'm trying to say that, there are so relatively few of us into he lifestyle, so the pickings aren't that great as they re. Add to that most seem to be in the UK or NZ or Australia, so that those in the USA can't simply take a quick jaunt to meet them.
So I guess most of us will have to enjoy the lifestyle in fantasy and learn to live with that. It's unfortunate, but it's the way it is in reality.
As I type this, I am chatting (Yahoo Chat) with a GF of mine in Texas into the lifestyle... we've been chatting for like 3 years lots and loots of hours - including phone calls - yet she's a thousand miles away and I doubt we'll ever meet.
Email: ocelotusa@yahoo.com