Posted by Zorro Daddy on July 14, 2010 at 06:28 [174.59.253.194]
In Reply to: A daddy looking for the right lg posted by Daddy Aaron on July 05, 2010 at 16:27
I would agree with Calle. The last thing you want to do is change. Evolving is okay. It's also natural. Everybody evolves, but offering up a different version of yourself is like putting on a facade when you first meet someone and then being forced to uphold that facade the rest of your life.
I would make a few small suggestions, like:
Begin looking locally. You can always broaden your search later, but finding someone nearby gives you the best chance to not only see them in real life, but get to know them because you have the ease of seeing them in real life.
Secondly, become a good communicator online. A lot of people are incapable of holding a "conversation" through email or on IM and because of this, don't do a good job of representing who they are. Keep in mind that without the internet you probably won't meet someone or it will become infintely impossible. And the one thing that you have to be good at on the internet is communication. So, learn to be good at that.
Thirdly, sit down and write out the ABDL dreams that exist within your mind. These dreams could be about her or about you or about your care of her or about your wildest AB fantasy situations or about the more practical, down-to-earth approach of an AB relationship. After you're done writing all of these thoughts out, look back over what you wrote and find the one paragraph that you like the most. **That paragraph should be prominently placed in your profile info.** Chances are that that paragraph does a better job of telling someone what's in your heart than any amount of random thoughts you could ever put together when filling out the "About Me" section. Ask yourself this question: Does my profile make people want to get to know me? ANd then ask yourself this: When you look at a girl's profile what makes you want to contact her (aside from the pics she may have posted of herself.) Chances are you read something she wrote about herself that intrigues you to want to get to know her better. And why did this work? Becuase she took the time to communicate and communicate well.
Lastly, don't overload your profile with a full length description of what's in your heart. And don't list everything that you wrote in your AB dreams. Just put a little something about yourself. If you put it all in writing and posting on the ABDL internet for everyone to read then no one has any reason to contact you further. And you may well have just missed finding her.
Hope this helps.
Zorro Daddy
Email: zorroabdaddy@yahoo.com