Posted by pantiespooper on June 17, 2009 at 08:25 [76.95.39.40]
In Reply to: Re: finally had a chance to do it! posted by dsfer on June 16, 2009 at 20:41
There, you see? "... no one on earth..."
I cannot speak for that many others (I could not possibly have all their thoughts and feelings) - only for myself. And here you are saying negative things you cannot possibly validate.
You go to the time and trouble to provide a one-liner that has all the impact of telling him (a presumption on my part for the moment - this might be a woman, you know) that his time and trouble are not worth it.
Well, it was WORTH IT TO ME! (Yes, I felt like yelling)
To paraphrase a very old adage - if you can't say something nice (or in this case at least positive), don't take the time and trouble to say anything. If you can do that, we will retain people (yes, both men AND women) that take the time and trouble to tell us things - things that perhaps are difficult for them to tell us at all - things that many, if not a major majority of us, really want to hear, if only to keep a bit of life in our subject at hand.
Yes, I know that sometimes that might result in a post not having any comments at all, but to throw something hurtful back at them will not allow them to learn (for themselves) that a different post might get MANY comments. Instead, they just give up trying after the first time.
I, for one, sometimes take new ideas from some of the posts - some that I have tried before, but had forgotten, or new ones that sound interesting enough to try for myself.
I do admit that there is not quite enough information in his post. I am curious why he had to take this sabbatical. Yes, size matters too, but it is not the most-important factor when it is about the poop.
I've rattled on too long - I'll quit now; well, after one more thought.
About a year ago, I composed, but never posted, a good-bye message; one that iterated a few of the reasons why it is no longer reasonable for me to be around, to post, to share, or even to be a lurker. Perhaps I have been here too long already, and maybe I am dreaming just to compose it, but it has been said that those that have valuable contributions are being driven away. I like to feel that that is not necessarily true. I don't know if mine have had value over the years or not, but I like to think they do. Their value is not mine to measure; indeed, that is in the minds and hearts of those that read them. I think it may be this thought that has kept me here to support the forum, and those that come to tell us the things they like to do. Yes, I have come to prefer to share through a more interactive chat, but this has been a part of me for a very long time; my first knowledge that I was not the only girl, indeed the only person in the entire world, that liked to poop her panties came to me through a forum much like this one that is all but dead now because of too much negative. Maybe I just didnt feel it was right to just leave and not tell anyone - the way most seem to do.
The folks that work to keep this forum and the others that are part of this Wetset community alive do go to the time and trouble to give us a place where we can share things that might never be shared otherwise. Were it not for this site, I would never know there are others that do some of the things I do, that no one else knows about.
Yes, the world is not all positive - not all milk and honey - streets paved with gold? that comes later. But we that support those that make this available to us should try to avoid the negatives when we can. It is the positive thoughts that will keep it alive, not the negative. If you need to vent a negative (and yes, I have them too), find a friend - or even find me on chat or email; I don't know if I can help, but I'll listen to you.
Even though I have vented about your negative comments, I do NOT want to drive even you away. You have positive things to share, and I know it.
I guess that's more than enough, isn't it...
Email: pantiespooper@rocketmail.com