Posted by dutchguy on May 29, 2001 at 10:55
Hello Everyone,
I'm posting this because I need some help with my girlfriend. I've been with this lovely girl for a few years now and we have a very good relationship. My only problem is that she doesn't share my fantasy. (In fact, she's disgusted by it!)
I'm sure that there are a lot of posters here that have the same problem, but I've also heard of quite a few who managed to encourage their partners to give it a try.
My question is: how did you do it? What did you say and when, and how did they react first? I'm very curious about your experiences and maybe I can learn from it.
Of course I don't want to force her to do things she doesn't want, but maybe I can make her change her mind (a little) That would make my life perfect!
Finally I want to say that I really like the way people treat each other on this board. Everybody respects and helps each other. When I read the posts I realise that everybody are just normal everyday people.
Thanks, you all make me feel at home here!
Hope to hear from you and my regards to everyone,