Posted by J on December 26, 1998 at 22:15
In Reply to: Learning about myself posted by over40 on December 26, 1998 at 20:16
What kind of support did you have in mind? I
suspect whatever kind, if it came from here,
would be gentle.
I have observed here for a while, and have yet
to see any of the w/s enthusiasts point to any
psychopathic origins to their habits. Most
just say "well, it happened" much the same that
you do.
As far as the virgin thing goes, well you found
*us* out as well. Neither my wife nor I have
ever had sex with anyone else. 'Course we
were rolling around in bed at high school age...
Well, if your husband does not want to
participate in your fantasies, at least you are
open about them to him and one would hope he
is understanding. This is not such a bad
situation.