Posted by T J on January 10, 2000 at 09:52
In Reply to: Apologise & more posted by Val on January 07, 2000 at 11:04
This is a tricky one - ultimately you want the guy to accept you for who you are - it would suck from your point of view to get into a long term relationship with him only to find that he thinks the same as your husband about you peeing your pants. On the other hand you want to get to know him better before finding out if he finds it a turn on - it would be bad is he turned out to be an asshole in other respects but you stuck with him because he liked to see you wet - So I guess for a while stick with the large pad rather than the pants to avoid arousing any suspicion - if he's any kind of man he'll accept the other once he gets to know you.
Having just given out all this wise sounding stuff - I've yet to figure out how to tell my wife how I feel about women wetting themselves - maybe you could email me on that one !