Posted by Cay on September 24, 2000 at 22:27
In Reply to: Most embarrasing discovery posted by Dork Boy on September 24, 2000 at 21:04
Now that's tragically funny! It appears as though you've got a sense of humor and pragmatism here, so I risk offering my reaction to your account.
In a more egneral sense, with regard to being discovered (and/or caught, for some). It's not as simple as one would at first think, to keep what're supposed to be private activities under cover. Just utilizing the Web to communicate about and to propel our sexual interests has it's measure of risk. Then there are the folks whose particular delights require or allow for a sort of public overlap, if you will. Voyeurs, exhibitionists, wetters holding on away from home, and others need to endure some level of known risk of being discovered by the wrong sort (I guess exhibitionists aren't the very best example here).
And of course sometimes our activities just take
us to the wrong place at the wrong time. This I suppose is where sexual behavior/feeling occurs and one's state of mind is boggled, temporarily to be sure, and with it one's best judgement.
There's too much to say on this. But I wanted to add to your inquiry and wonder if not only have folks been discovered, but also what the risk factor was going into the behavior?
In your case, it's an understandable lapse in judgement (in my opinion, because of the impulsive and urgent nature of it), with doubtlessly no regard given to the risk that yuor boss would receive a cleaning bill. And can't most of us relate to having the animal urge overpower the best situational judgement?
All those of us that possess some sort of interest in these deeply personal areas of sexual wetting fetishes and the like, I would think, must be required to live at least a bit on the edge of discovery some of the time. Most times, depending on the area of interest for sure, these are just light brushes with unwanted exposure. Or no?