Posted by Tommy2tone on October 26, 2000 at 18:20
I almost gave this the subject 'Question for the ladies', but I then realized that those posts usually get ignored. Besides, as well as the ladies, this is a question for gay men, bi-sexuals of both persuasions, cross-posting nuns, and even those not attracted to guys who might be able to provide some insight...
I'm surprised that I haven't seen this issue mentioned here before. And to make it personal, I have never actually had this 'problem', but I think that I could if I'm not careful to prevent it. (And especially if I purposely give it a little help!) Even more personal, when I am having sex, and there is nobody else here with me, sometimes it is a bit of a thrill to pretend that I don't even have time to get my pants off.
To avoid a survey format, I didn't number these questions, but here are some of the things that I want to know:
Well, is it a turn on or not? Does it excite you? BTW, I do mean ‘in his pants’, not just ‘too soon’. Do you think that it would excite someone who is not into W/S? I can imagine saying to a woman, 'This is so embarrassing, but I couldn't stop it. That's how much you turn me on'. Do you think that it appeals more to W/S fans than to others? Maybe readers of this bboard will respond to it more than the average population, because it is another kind if an 'accident'. And of course it is ‘wet’. I wonder if, psychologically, men like W/S because the urge to urinate and the eventual unavoidable result are similar to the male orgasm. It is a building up of pressure. And if a guy starts to come, and then the stimulation suddenly stops, he is still going to spurt, whether he wants to or not (at least the first time. The later ones do take some more work.) For a female, if the action is halted just as she is about to climax, then nothing happens, except that she is really frustrated and pissed off. Also, the feeling of male orgasm is an expulsion of fluid, while the female one is more of an inward sucking action. Isn't it? I wish that just for once I could know for sure... (but just once) (or maybe twice ;)
So, do you think that this would be one way to ease a new partner into W/S, by saying after it has happened, 'I had an accident. Now it wouldn't be so embarrassing for you to have one for me too'?
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