Posted by Kim on October 23, 2003 at 12:18 [24.71.37.215]
In Reply to: Just ranting posted by Jason on October 23, 2003 at 01:20
I like visiting chatrooms and I don't think I have a crappy attitude. My only stipulation is that people for the most part talk to me in the main room unless they have something they need to discuss with me which shouldn't be brought into the main room.
Sometimes I can be pretty bitchy, but usually I end up telling people off if they are being rude. Lots of guys try to trick you, like they'll say "I can't see profiles send me a picture." As if you owe them a picture. Or "I'm new to diapers tell me about your diaper experience." The list goes on and on and on, with how they try and decieve you to talk to them, it gets a little old. Looking for a mate is one thing and thats fine I understand that but 99% of the time when I get IM'd the person hasn't even bothered to read my profile which clearly states that I'm married. What about a guys responsibility? If your looking for a potential mate shouldn't you at least find out if that person is available before you IM them?
I go to chat to have fun because its a chance for me to be among people where I'm free. I'm free to be little, or grown up, or to be however I want to be. The chatroom offers me a chance to be more open around people with who I am. I like making people laugh and being entertained, I don't go there to find a mate. So it really bothers me when I get IM'd and then find out the person is trying to pick me up and hasn't even bothered to see that I'm unavailable. Even more so, and this happens so much, when someone IM's me and then leaves the main room to talk to me privately only, as if they've decided I'm going to be their date for this evening. I really hate that. I'm not saying that you do that personally, just that a lot of guys do. A lot of the time it just seems like some of them don't even care if you're having a good time or not they just want to get what they want from you.
I'm not into the whole FruFru baby stuff either, I like certain aspects of being a baby, but I don't like the whole rhumba pants, crawling on the floor type thing. I like being creative with the things I wear, Going to a second hand shop and picking up an article or a piece of clothing to match it with other things is fun. I think it gives off a more realistic baby image. I never wore big frilly dresses when I was a little. So wearing a pair of cover alls and a cute pair of socks or something is more baby like to me.