Posted by advicer on January 15, 2004 at 11:45 [24.200.51.113]
In Reply to: Re: does this mean he is not wothy of our advice? posted by CutiE on January 14, 2004 at 03:04
i hear what youre saying and it makes sense to me... but ... i'm now 20 (not 21, but im from canada so 18 is enough i guess), anyways, ive been reading this board and others for over 4 years and although i agree that people advertise for things that is clearly not adressed to underage people, i dont think any msg board can be anymore harmful to anyone than a chatting program such as mirc, where people are getting involved in live conversations with perfect strangers who can pretend to be whatever they think might please who they're talking to. seems worse to me, but theres no-one doing anything about that...
all that makes me wonder why they warn people entering this site it contains adult material if no verification is made on the users real age, in this case, our australian friend could have said he was 18, or 21, and he wouldnt have received a single answer (in most case), now he tells the truth saying hes 16 and he starts a 20 msg tread which i take part of now. and as far as i know, his real age was the least important detail of his post, he could be 50 and have the same problem, hes simply seeking for advice, and i wouldnt ask my 16 year old friends for advice in this situation if i were him...
anyways, my advice would be to give her hints about AB/DLs in general and see what she thinks, you know her better than anyone here, so you probably know better than us what to do, just try to think how you could get to see how she feels about diapers, i know many girls will think its cute, while some would be disgusted, if you want to be real safe, get her to try diapers before telling her you like them (try talking her into it as if it were a new thing) then she might want to ask you to try and do the same, i dont know
either you try something and test her open-mindedness, or you keep your fetish for yourself which im sure cant be that good if your relationship is really serious
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