Posted by BuddyMike on October 16, 2006 at 23:47 [71.240.109.118]
In Reply to: My Husband posted by Jemma on October 15, 2006 at 07:21
I went through this with my wife 2 years ago. First hand I know how he felt when you made him sleep alone and the scolds and such. It did my wife no good and it will do YOU no good to keep on him or ridicule him or try to change his ways or impeed on his fetish. A fetish is one's way to express something about themself either privately or publicly (in this case around you.) I eventually told my wife either accept me for who I am or we can just end it. Was being diapered more important that my marriage? NO. But trying to change someone or some part of their personal comfort levels is of the utmost important. Talking is the key NOT trying to force YOUR beliefs on what you consider normal is. We worked it out although she is not totally happy we compromised and now we can at least live with it. I wear them around her under clothing and she knows it. The best think that you can do is to learn about what a fetish is, talk to people here about diapers and why people like them. You will see it doesn't make us pedophiles nor does it make us (or him) less of men or woman. It's just something that we like and to some degree it is a comfort level taking us back to a time of peace and trnaquility in our lives. I know I LOVE to wear them and should the day our marriage end under anyother circumstances, I know she would try to use that against me but it WON'T change me nor the fact I will wear them as long as I enjoy wearing them. SO take this advice... YOU WILL BE HAPPIER if you just learn to understand him and that will bring you closer together.
MikeB.
Email: mjbrown501b@yahoo.com