Posted by A. on October 12, 2008 at 18:16 [71.67.147.112]
In Reply to: I fucked up BIG TIME...any advice? posted by Daddy2Layne on October 12, 2008 at 05:00
.. my opinion's not exactly what's sought (who wants to listen to single men?), I would suggest you re-negotiate your relationship. It sounds as though you're grappling with a great physical distance, and, from what I infer, this "transgression" of yours was simply acting to meet a physical/intimacy need that the distance made impossible for your partner to fulfill.
My ultimate advice for you both is a reminder that, regardless of her role, it does fall to her to be just as adult in dealing with the complex nature of a long distance relationship; that she enjoys being little does not entitle her to special dispensation to be possessive, controlling, or unreasonable.
best, and good luck,