Posted by pantiespooper on December 11, 2010 at 11:11 [70.116.74.190]
In Reply to: Well ... I tried it! posted by Jenn on December 09, 2010 at 13:37
Jenn,
I am glad you liked it (although it was powerfully sexual). Welcome to our little group (or is this a bigger group than any of us can imagine?).
I have speculated that as much as 5% of the women of this works fill their panties. Of course, more than that have done it only once, and didn't like it. But a large number of them have done it the second, and third time. I expect that the large majority do it only in their bathroom, and (like you) clean up right away. Circumstances often get in my way, preventing a longer enjoyment, and I clean up right away too.
You have set your mind on a path that it may never leave. And you may have lots of encouragement (here and elsewhere). Always make up your own mind; you have up to now, but then, you are still exploring. Many are gonna be the guys that want you to do the things that THEY like, and some will want pics or vids. Hold strong, no matter what; you are in control, and you have to decide what you will and will not do.
There are many ideas here about how to expose this to your husband, and some are quite good. Here again, it is up to you to try to establish the best way. You know him better than we ever could, and you have found a secret that he doesn't know you know about. That alone will be difficult to overcome, I fear.
My suggestion: dont make snap decisions. Again, you are in the driver seat. Having an accident, or even talking about having an accident is good. The idea of walking somewhere (if you regularly take walks) and announcing a delimma is good too, but if you dont take walks regularly, it could look like a ploy. And that in addition to doing it away from home might be a negative for that selection.
So I am going to submit that you should call on the love that you share; that should be the ONLY reason that you would even bring all this up in the first place. Don't let the sex get in the way! Yes, it is part of it, for both of you, but it could become the block that grows between you too. Let that be the reward. Above all, dont throw in something 'made-up', even though it might not be outright lying. For example, you can now tell him that you poop your panties, but that's no good - he will soon learn you have done it only a few days.
One idea that struck me might help. Make love to him (perhaps a very special time for him), hold him tight, and tell him what happened when you discovered him. Watch his reaction closely; it will tell you if you should go on. Then tell him that you have done it too. From that point, the conversation, indeed the entire relationship will take a turn, but you MUST control it so that it is a good turn for both of you.
Bear in mind, I am no expert, and I have NEVER been in the situation you are now in. Others will likely have better suggestions for you, but being an emotional woman, and trying to put myself in your position, this comes to mind. At the bottom line, you have the choice; you can chose not to tell him at all, you can fill your panties and then tell him, or you can do any number of things.
Another just occurred to me: Let HIM discover you! If you cannot time it right so that he sees you with your panties full, perhaps you can (accidentally) leave some bit of evidence of what you have done. Maybe panties that have a bit too much stain and dont come completely clean; maybe you rinsed your panties, and left them in the sink to soak, for him to find. Does he ever watch while you are on the potty? Maybe a subtle way would be to go to the potty (when he knows, or perhaps is watching) and accidentally forget to pull your panties down when you poop.
I have too many suggestions, and many of them are probably wrong for you. At this point, you know what you want to do - you have to discover the best way to do it. But plan on his surprise, and embarassment, and control it so that the end is good, and better.
Know that my heart is with you, and that (probably more than anything) I REALLY envy you! Perhaps we can chat sometime...
Email: pantiespooper@rocketmail.com