Posted by matt on September 30, 2000 at 06:03
In Reply to: got caught posted by May on September 29, 2000 at 14:24
ok, this is what I did when I got caught: I just pleaded with my dad never to mention it again. I must admit that I was an adult when I got caught (18, but still dependent. this was only last year by the way). Being an adult by law may have been to my advantage, but I just asked my dad never to talk about it to me or anyone else ever again. I said that I was sorry, and that it isn't my fault and that I wanted us to forget anything ever happened. It was REALLY weird between us for about 3 or 4 months, but gradually it became forgotten. Now, my father and I are atleast as close as we ever were before I got busted. Don't be afraid of therapy though. Just be cool and honest with your therapist and let him/her know if your not comfortable with changing your life style. Ask your therapist if there is actually anything wrong with shitting your pants on purpose - the answer will more than likely be no.
let me know if u want any more advice or support. I hope this has helped at least a little bit. Hang in there - it gets better :)
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