Posted by Ted Norton on April 06, 2008 at 11:48 [87.194.37.99]
Does anybody else have/had a girlfriend or wife who had a problem with skidmarks? My girlfriend of 2 years (23, slim and sporty) regularly gets stained knickers (at least 3 times per week).
When we first started going out I noticed that she would always wear black knickers when we would go out on a date, at the time I didn't think anything of it but now I realise that it was probably in order to save her from any embarrassment at bed time if I noticed that she wasn't as clean as she should be!
Now we live together and out of necessity she has become less shy about her "problem", and when I do the laundry I will often spot pairs of knickers with light to medium staining. She likes to wear cutton boy shorts and bikini style panties (predominantly Top Shop brand!), and she has a wide variety of colours. The stains range from very small spots or faint brown rub marks where her undies have ridden up into her butt during the day, right through to solid, darker and thicker marks in the back of her knickers, up to a couple of inches long. She clearly knows that I see them, but for a long time she wouldn't mention anything to me, and would always ensure that the dirtier ones weren't sitting at the top of the laundry pile.
I've wondered for a long time what causes her to dirty her knickers like this, and as we've become closer I have been able to observe a couple of points. She is now more or less comfortable with going to the toilet if I happen to be in the bathroom shaving for example, and her poos are usually fairly soft and urgent (she will often wait til the last minute to go). However, the stains do not come from "touching cotton", "prairie dogging" or following through with a wet fart - only on a couple of occasions have I seen her sit on the toilet with a stain already in her knickers (and she was quick to cover them with her feet as she sat on the loo!). Her poos are fairly soft and come out in many pieces - in fact, she seems to pinch them off regularly, rather than letting them come out more naturally, and this is probably making her ass dirtier. She also sticks to a pretty rigorous "3 wipe policy", and will tend to wipe herself the same whether she has had a hard, dry shit or a much softer, looser one. When she has diarrhea she may wipe a little more (though she doesn't usually go in front of me if she knows that it is going to be a wet one), but generally she sticks to 3 wipes which is sometimes adequate and quite often not. I have also noticed that she will often begin to wipe before she is fully finished (doesn't like to waste time on the pot!), and will often have to stop wiping to poo some more, or there will be a little bit of poop hanging when she begins to wipe, which can obviously result in a messier wipe. I think also that she doesn't like me to see her wipe, as this makes her embarrassed, so she probably wipes less in my presence than she would in private.
The heaviest stains usually come when she has worn the knickers while going to the gym or playing sport (she is on her company's netball team), and in these cases there is often a bigger, more spread-out skidmark due to the sweating and physical activity. The skids are never dark enough to be visible from the other side of the fabric, but those days when she plays sport are usually the dirtiest. When she goes at work (she hates to do this as the stall walls are very thin and other people can hear her) there are normally lighter stains if she leaves a skidmark. When she's on her period she wears a pad (Always Ultra usually, I think) and sometimes there will be a little brown dot on the back of her used pads where the back has nestled against her dirty asshole.
When we first started to date she was very careful not to let her poor wiping become noticeable to me, and she would usually disappear to the bathroom to "freshen up" any time that sex was imminent. The underwear was usually hidden away at the bottom of her laundry pile, though I quickly discovered where to look! These days we're a lot more open, and I think she is less worried about me thinking that she's gross. Sometimes I slip her knickers off before sex and there's a skiddy inside, and ususally she will wriggle her legs to get the dirty panties off and out of sight as quickly as possible, but she doesn't seem overly embarrassed. Although we've never spoken about her skidmark problem directly, she will occasionally make reference to it, such as the time when she couldn't find her undies in the changing room of the swimming pool that she attends, and that she didn't want anybody to see them as she had "been wearing them all day and they were a bit dirty". Other times if I'm about to give her oral sex and she knows that she has a pretty solid skid mark in her undies from an earlier poo, she will whisper to me something like "baby, not right now, I haven't had a chance to shower today" or even one time she said "honey, I'm not very clean down there right now, I'm sorry"! Of course, I always tell her not to worry and usually she lets me go ahead unless she knows that it's particularly bad ;c)
I would like to talk about this topic with my gf some more, as I know that she is still (needlessly) a little embarrassed about the sometimes dirty state of her knickers, but I'm not sure how to bring it up, or the fact that I find it a turn-on.
Does anyone else have a wife/gf who gets skidmarks in their undies on occasions? If so, do they try to hide this fact from you, or are they open about it? I'm really intereted to hear if other people have had similar experiences.
Email: ted.norton@yahoo.com