Posted by rachel on January 04, 2000 at 18:59
In Reply to: My Big Fear posted by Darren on January 04, 2000 at 10:40
good luck. I have this fear of asking most of my teachers to use the bathroom. especially if it's urgent. why would your girlfriend go mad? if she loves you it won't matter if you have an accident at work. not once anyhow.it shouldn't. I'm a girl. you shouldn't feel bad if the girls are giggling about how you have a weak bladder. if they do, it is probably because that is how most women are-they'll laugh or giggle over anything if they're with their friends. i'll bet at least one if not more of them has a weak bladder too! I can't honestly think of a way to overcome fear of passing them. maybe if you took a close work friend with you that was fine with it, on one of the occasions, you would feel more comfortable. so they don't talk about that, have him walk past it and bid you farewell-and you go into the restroom. I heard kegal excercises make it so you have to urinate less often. wearing an adult diaper at work is also an option, if you would feel comfortable keeping them there at work. good luck and please tell me what happens. rachel
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