Posted by Warthog9 on December 14, 1998 at 12:52
Sorry to move this little post back to the top but I had a question I think youll all be intrested in. First though let me say something in response to the original post below. While our numbers are likely not increasing, our presence on the web is (whitch is probably what the person meant). And thats a good thing. But keep in mind there will never be full respect given to people interested in watersports.
Hiding out in our apartments and houses using the internet and watching videos has made a lot of us feel like a minority but of course this isn't the same as race or sex or even sexual orientation. It isn't about who we are or who we love. Its about what we like to do to have an orgasm -- hardly worth a lot of complaining to most people.
On the other hand, there is at least a general acceptance of kinky sex in the media and society. Mild things like peeping and even low-key bondage are found even on American TV. In large cities they even have S&M bars where the waitresses walk around in leather carrying whips. If we could reach that level of acceptance I think we would all be happy. Imagine that -- pants peeing waitresses. Wonder what a lap dance would cost?
And I think a lot more people are into this than let on. Ask yourself: if it took the internet to open you up about this, why would you expect your friend/spouse/neighbor/whoever to admit to it?
How do we get people to admit it? We have to get the message out that there are many many of us out here and that though it may be weird it is common (does one negate the other?). For that, we need to know just *how* common it is, which is a formidable task to say the least. Ive run a million ideas through my mind but I would like some input.
We need a large cross-section of the populace. You can't just ask someone Hey do you like to piss your pants? You could but I won't be held responsible for the consequences. Perhaps it could be included in a general "sexual fetish" survey but we need a way to make the person filling out the survey feel fully free to answer as he/she truly feels.
Perhaps this could be done on a more mainstream style sex site. But that would overload the answers with male respondants. Mabye an emailer. Maybe it could be done in the real world without a computer at all.
How do we do a good, accurate poll? Any answers? I would like to know just for my own interest if nothing else and I'm sure many of you would too.
Sorry for my lack of commas in places. My keyboard is screwed. Sometimes they work sometimes they don't.
Email: warthog9@hotmail.com