Posted by Babydoc on December 26, 1998 at 21:37
In Reply to: Re: Learning about myself posted by over40 on December 26, 1998 at 20:20
I understand, but wonder why you're trying to stop visiting these sites. It's a harmless outlet for this aspect of your sexuality, which you don't express to your husband. One can't deny ones sexual nature, as Freud pointed out too many times. Maybe limit it a little?
You've told us what you don't want, but what do you want? You don't seem sure yourself. If you don't want wet sex with your husband, then what would be an exciting fantasy for you? Or is it he who's not interested?
You seem like a nice woman, best wishes to you and your husband.
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