Posted by over40 on December 26, 1998 at 21:45
In Reply to: Re: Learning about myself posted by Babydoc on December 26, 1998 at 21:37
I've discussed this with my husband on occasion and he's definitely not interested. That's cool, because we enjoy an active, more traditional sex life and have for nearly 25 years. We've not become bored yet and don't anticipate it. Our parents were good role models with healthy sex lives, so we were reared to believe that sex is a valuable part of a loving relationship.
I dwelt on the negative I guess because I didn't want a bunch of rah-rah letters telling me to go for it. And, just for the record, my fantasies always involve wetting activities, so I'm fulfilled. As for leaving the sites behind, that's just a personal thing. No mixed feelings or anything. I'm fine without them. They did help me to realize (as they have many others) that this isn't something that is unique to me.
Thank you for writing. I am, I believe, a very nice person with a pretty strict - but not restrictive - moral code. I'm at peace with it.
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