Posted by matt on August 31, 2000 at 19:23
In Reply to: Help me understand posted by Sara on August 31, 2000 at 16:35
Dear Sara,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. After only two months you must still be in a great deal of pain. Ask your self why you really want to know about this fetish. Are you holding on to your husband? I am not a councillor, but I have studied psychology as a part of my degree. Sometimes people devote their lives to learning about their deceased loved ones in a subconscience attempt to keep them alive. By learning new things about your husband, you feel that he is still around - teaching you about himself. This is a natural part of the grieving process, how it's not necessarily benificial. I wish you well; time and love will heal you.